I’ve been reading a positive list of traits … it’s much easier to see my challenges are also strengths …
So attention to detail, passion for justice, loyalty…. these are all important to me.
But not knowing what I’m missing. Not understanding how I’m coming across . Feeling insecure because I don’t know what people think or mean … These disturb me. I’m struggling to see these in a better light.
I feel sad that my straightforward way of seeing things isn’t appreciated by others .
I try to problem solve and am accused of criticism .
I try to develop and am accused of undermining others .
I don’t understand why my good intentions are misinterpreted.